4 Simple Steps to Feel Good Again in Perimenopause

by Deborah Maragopoulos FNP | Aug 15, 2024 | Menopause, Perimenopause | 0 comments

What are the best engaging activities for perimenopausal women to feel good again?

Let's talk about it. 

When you reach perimenopause, oftentimes you feel like your body is out of control.

Your hormones are imbalanced and your moods are erratic. You begin having irregular bleeding, you may be gaining weight, you're not sleeping as well. You're having trouble concentrating, even suffering some memory loss. 

So what can you do to help yourself feel better? 

1. Aerobic Exercise.

When you exercise in the aerobic zone for at least 20 minutes a day you actually help to raise feel-good neurotransmitters, especially endorphins. Exercise helps increase your metabolism and helps your hormone metabolism as well.

Weight resistance exercise has also been shown to increase endorphins and should be done at least twice a week. 

2. Yoga and other more Meditative Mind-Body Activities

These can really help to reduce your stress and help you get more grounded in your body and help to calm your nervous system.  

3. Socializing

Get out there and do the things you love. Meeting with people who are fun, uplifting, and just enjoyable helps center you and calm your overactive nervous system. 

Make time to play. Even as an adult you need to make time to enjoy fun activities. Play raises feel-good endorphins. 

Women’s circles can be particularly effective at helping you feel good again. Women who participate in women's circles that are supportive, nonjudgmental, and actually help them stay accountable for their health, find that going through perimenopause is much easier. 

4. Sex

Sex helps to increase endorphins and oxytocin levels. A healthy sex life or at least regular orgasms can actually help to improve your moods and calm your nervous system. 

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Frequently Asked Questions:

Can your hypothalamus cause weight gain?

Yes. The hypothalamus is the master regulator of metabolism, controlling how your body stores and burns energy through its signaling to the thyroid, adrenals, and pancreas. When the hypothalamus becomes dysregulated by chronic stress, poor sleep, inflammation, or blood sugar instability, it defends a higher weight "set point" — causing the body to hold onto fat regardless of diet or exercise. This makes hypothalamic dysfunction an upstream root cause of stubborn weight gain.


What is a weight set point and why won't mine move?

A weight set point is the body weight your hypothalamus works to defend, calibrated over time by stress, sleep, hormones, and inflammation. When you diet, the hypothalamus perceives scarcity and responds by slowing metabolism, increasing hunger hormones, and suppressing satiety signals to return you to that set point. This is why most people regain lost weight within two to five years of conventional dieting — the set point itself was never recalibrated, only temporarily overridden.


Why do I gain weight under stress even when I'm not eating more?

Chronic stress raises cortisol, which disrupts blood sugar regulation, promotes abdominal fat storage, and signals the hypothalamus that the body is under threat. In survival mode, the hypothalamus defends fat stores and slows metabolism — so weight can increase even without any change in calorie intake. The stress chemistry, not the food, is driving the weight gain, which is why stress reduction is essential to any lasting metabolic reset.


Why do I regain weight after stopping GLP-1 medications?

GLP-1 medications work peripherally on appetite and gastric signaling, but they do not address the underlying hypothalamic dysregulation that sets your defended weight. Because the hypothalamic set point is never recalibrated, the body resumes defending its original weight once the medication stops — leading to significant regain. Long-term success requires restoring hypothalamic regulation so the set point itself lowers, rather than relying on appetite suppression alone.


How long does it take to reset your metabolism?

Genuine metabolic recalibration takes a minimum of 90 days, because the hypothalamus needs consistent signals of safety and sufficiency before it will lower its defended set point. This differs from a diet, which produces temporary suppression the body quickly corrects. A 90-day reset typically moves through three phases: stabilizing stress chemistry (days 1–30), rebuilding metabolic efficiency (days 31–60), and lowering the weight set point (days 61–90).


Why does my thyroid feel slow even though my labs are "normal"?

Under chronic stress, the body converts thyroid hormone into reverse T3, which blocks active thyroid receptors and slows metabolism at the cellular level — even when standard lab values appear normal. This means you can experience genuine symptoms of slow metabolism, such as fatigue, cold intolerance, and brain fog, while your thyroid panel looks unremarkable. Addressing the upstream hypothalamic and stress signaling often improves thyroid conversion and symptoms.


Is stubborn weight gain a willpower problem?

No. Stubborn weight gain is a signaling problem, not a willpower problem. The hypothalamus governs weight through survival mechanisms that operate below conscious control — defending its set point by slowing metabolism and increasing hunger when it perceives threat. No amount of discipline can override this system; lasting change comes from restoring hypothalamic regulation through reduced stress, balanced blood sugar, restorative sleep, and targeted nutritional support.

About the Author - Deborah Maragopoulos FNP

Known as the Hormone Queen®️, I’ve made it my mission to help everyone - no matter their age - balance their hormones, and live the energy and joy their DNA and true destiny desires. See more about me my story here...

     

Last Updated: August 15, 2024

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